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CONVERSATIONS WITH CLARE & POSEY: Do I love myself enough?
April 4, 2014
Dear Clare and Posey,
I had an insight today as I was reading through Facebook feeds….someone I follow has many people who love her and bring her goodies out of the blue, without asking, without thinking, just because they love who she is and what she stands for. That got me thinking…do I love myself enough to receive as she does? Do I love myself enough to put out the necessary vibes of love energy to attract a following that I feel I want?
Perhaps it is an energetic issue that is keeping me stagnate – I need to delve into this a bit deeper to find out where the issue is hidden and how to extract it to heal and open myself to love of me and allow others to love me. I think I am on to something here, but need your insights. Could you comment?
As you know, you are a piece of the beautiful brilliant fabric of All That Is. This Source energy is just pure love – nothing more, nothing less.
Those of us in the soul/spirit world are pulling for you to love yourself so others can love you. We have given you plenty of help on the human side, including skilled therapists to access your subconscious and release old patterns.
Do be aware however, that your past is one blueprint you are paying attention to, while the present is another altogether. We realize the past can influence you, and it is good to understand that influence, but it is highly possible that in this present life, it is all a dream in which you can create what you choose. Does this sound too esoteric? If so, maybe you want to try this idea: deeply sink into the vision of a new born child, puppy or flower. Can you feel how they evolve from the deepest place of beginnings to opening and being part of this new world? They only know love, they know nothing else…this is you, always.
I am there for you when you feel or sense that sweet spot of energy in your chest. That is me cheering you on in the perfectness of the moment. Once you leave that space and go towards worry and fret about not being good enough to be loved, you are with my friend, Posey.
I know I am so darned verbal and circular but, my job is to remind you of past misconducts which may make you feel unlovable today. I have facts! I have reality that many consider valid! Remember that time – insert any memory you choose here – just by remembering, you fell right into the left brained analytical factoid based brain where we can prove anything you wish over and over. That is my job, and I am quite good at it.
You can visualize all the love you want, but until you believe what Clare says is real, I have you entrenched in my reality. I hear it said that science supports the idea that your brain is plastic and you can change your mind at will. I am not sure of that as I keep seeing people stick with old programming (just like you) over and over. Go ahead and check out a therapist – let me know if you get to the bottom of this love yourself issue. In the meantime, I am here in a good ole repeat and replay mode – just like a tape you are having trouble erasing!